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Paulette Delcourt: Women Are The Majority, So Why Don't We Rule?

If women were represented in policy, we'd make 50 percent of the decisions.

Last week during the primary voting, I realized there was something missing. Women.

OK, there were women on the ballot, but there were a heck of a lot more men. This got me wondering about who exactly was passing federal laws on my behalf. People like me?

As it turns out, the decision-makers aren’t much like me at all.

Despite the fact that we ladies constitute more than 50 percent of the U.S. population, we only comprise 17 percent of Congress.

However, if you look at the facts, the country would be better off if women were in charge:

Women have smarticle particles: More women hold degrees in higher education than men and graduate from high school than men.

We have good genes: Over the age of 85, women outlive men 2 to 1. Maybe that's why Medicare covers Viagra.

We’re responsible: 4 percent more women vote than men. We just keep voting for men.

As I dug into my research, I learned Congress is even less like me than I thought. While only 1 percent of the US population is a millionaire, almost half of the members of Congress are (47 percent).  

During a recession, while most of us were digging change out of their sofas to buy groceries (they’re too big to shake out), the net worth of our Congressmen actually increased 25 percent (since 2008).

Speaking of money, we ladies take an additional hit. For every dollar a man earns, women still only earn 77 cents, a disappointing statistic if we consider 59 percent of the workforce age 16 and over is female.

An additional gender “tax” is waged on women who can pay up to 50 percent more for health insurance than men. One reason for the penalty is related to the one thing women are decidedly much better at than men: giving birth.

I admit I didn’t realize how much more women paid for health insurance. This fact is coming to light as the disproportionately gendered Supreme Court weighs in on the constitutionality of the Affordable Health Care Act.

Millionaire Congresswoman Nancy Pelosi promised us that we’d have to “pass the bill to know what is in it,” and I guess that has come to pass and disturbing details are coming to light.

Sadly, I’ve been so busy having babies, earning 77 percent of my value, working four jobs and digging for snack money in my sofa I didn’t even realize that I had become so expensive. There was that time my husband told me that if he dropped me from his company’s health plan the insurance bill for our family of four would be cut in half. That should have been a clue.

Nobody seems to know what is in that health care bill, but I hope I can still get my annual exam as recommended by my doctor. That’s not a decision I’d trust to even a well-trained actuary.

I hope as we learn to cut costs women aren’t further penalized for the one thing we can control: our health.

Let’s just hope the path to reform doesn’t come with too many shortcuts. Like this one (click it).

Dave April 20, 2012 at 02:13 pm
Well, that's just not true. You can't necessarily keep your same physician, and you definitely can't keep your same insurance company, if your employer decides to drop or change coverage because of escalating premiums -- which clearly will happen (and indeed has happened already) as a result of the AHCA. As a business owner, I can tell you we are contemplating doing just that. It's too early too see whether we will or won't, but it's on the table. And I guarantee you that is the case with a lot of businesses, particularly smaller ones. So when the Administration said you can definitely keep your same insurance and see your same doctor, that was, frankly a lie.
Joseph R. Martan April 20, 2012 at 02:16 pm
Catherine the Great of Russia; her mother-in-law Empress Elizabeth; the Dowager Empress of China who ruled during the Boxer Rebellion for starters.
Joseph R. Martan April 20, 2012 at 02:21 pm
Members of Congress? Sorry, but at the end of the day that is still a posiiton where the constituents get to vote for their representatives. If you can't convice a majority don't blame misogyny or other rationalizations. At least we aren't like certain European countries where gender quotas are imposed upon even candidates running for office.
Robert Jr. April 20, 2012 at 03:03 pm
Don't forget to represent transgenders, lesbians, and gays...in essence the original argument for more females in office rather than bald headed males is a farce...it was really a cry out for public acknowledgement of importance ... hopefully some day all genders feel represented without being resentful to other genders. And to blame modern males for the history of leadership in government ...well that just wreaks of being out of touch with reality. Its not our fault nor does it necessarily benefit us. The corruption and ineptitude sucks with both male and female politicians.
Dave April 20, 2012 at 04:14 pm
There are a lot of politicians and other public figures who have a vested interest in fomenting resentment and keeping the country divided. Unfortunately a lot of people take the bait, which detracts from legitimate, constructive discussion. It'll never change.
Robert Jr. April 20, 2012 at 06:18 pm
Dave...well said. Amen and Awomen!
Paulette Delcourt April 21, 2012 at 03:18 am
You are pro-choice where the situation is non-consensual--does this mean a victim of a violent crime would be subject to interrogation to justify her desire to terminate a pregnancy? How would one choose who is "eligible" and who is not?
Paulette Delcourt April 21, 2012 at 03:28 am
I lived in both England and France where there are national health care systems. In France I signed up for a Mutuelle Sante--private health insurance--why did I need it? Because the good doctors would not work for the government pay. A dear friend of mine in England could not receive timely treatment for cancer until she paid for private insurance. Even in this country, I have a friend who was hit by a drunk driver--the driver was arrested and charged. In the days after the accident her own physician refused to treat her because he said it would take three years to parse out the responsibility and get reimbursed for her care. The bottom line is we end up paying so much for the implementation and the administration of the rules, that the paperwork becomes more important than the people. That isn't what this country is about.
Paulette Delcourt April 21, 2012 at 03:31 am
Public service is hard work and officials are subject to intense scrutiny--I respect the sacrifice, we all should. Thanks for the insights.
Paulette Delcourt April 21, 2012 at 03:33 am
Dave I agree with you. The first thing I would do if I wanted power over any population, would be to divide the people and turn them against each other. Interesting point. I think if we could step outside the rhetoric and look at the situation objectively--our hearts would change and our minds would follow.
Paulette Delcourt April 21, 2012 at 03:45 am
I think the women despots are still outnumbered.
Paulette Delcourt April 21, 2012 at 03:51 am
I'm no fan of quotas--everyone should earn their spot.
Meg April 21, 2012 at 04:10 am
Hi Ralph,
I am glad that you have acknowledged that there are other groups that are frequently missing from this discussion. I would just like to point out that being gay or lesbian is actually forms of sexuality rather than gender. It is interesting to note (and well known in any Women, Gender, or Sexuality Studies class), that these categories you have mentioned all deviate from what is considered heteronormative. Anyone who strays from the sex, sexuality, and gender binaries that are solidified by man/woman, female/male ect., are cast into the "other" category. Most people do this. Why didn't you include other categories included in the alphabet soup like bisexual or genderqueer? Probably because you lump them into one category that simply blurs the borders of binaries. In many binary systems, there is a seemingly better choice in the eyes of society (some examples: heterosexual is better the homosexual, man is better than women (if you need proof for this claim, look at the cultural preference for sons all over the world))). I see including women in office as a first step to a greater inclusion of those in the lesser binary or binaries. This type of progression can be seen in universities: first having women and gender studies programs and then having queer studies programs.
Meg April 21, 2012 at 04:28 am
Also, going back to abortion. Offering legislation that would only allow abortion in non-consentual situations could potentially lead to cases where women that medically need abortions cannot receive one (I know this is extreme...but with some of the legislation trying to be passed today....). As a woman, I think that banning abortion is banning a way that I can be in control of my body. Women have to carry the child, go through physical strains, and the economic. With these pressures, it detracts from a woman's sexual freedom. Obviously everyone should practice safe sex, but sometimes contraceptive methods fail, and let's face it, the price of motherhood is daunting . I know that you may be chivalrous Ralph, but not everyone is. Not everyone wants to be in a monogamous, committed relationship. Pro-life is just crazy. I'm sorry. With pro-choice, hey, if you don't like abortions no one is forcing you to get one. Also these prolife bills are just insane, like the ones that force women to have an ultrasound before getting an abortion, which basically project to me the notion that women are stupid and irrational and need to "know" what they are doing before they do it (oh...why no...I didn't realize there is an embryo in there....well in that case...)
Paulette Delcourt April 21, 2012 at 01:34 pm
My concern hinges on treating people like they are people, and not part of a group.I mean Native Americans get names about who they are--their qualities, not what they are. Lumping people into categories is dispiriting, not empowering.
Paulette Delcourt April 21, 2012 at 01:38 pm
There's a debate among different cultures and religions about when life starts. Some believe it is when an individual takes his first breath, others at conception. Who is right is the matter of debate--but in the interest of personal freedom this is a moral issue that perhaps should not be legislated. Abortions can be dangerous, pregnancies can be dangerous, birth control pills carry risks too--being a woman comes with some physical risks not shared by men.
Robert Jr. April 21, 2012 at 02:21 pm
Pro choice must also give the male the right to exercise his rights as far as when life begins...it is not just about women's right...that would be Pro-control
Robert Jr. April 21, 2012 at 02:24 pm
Pro choice cant take away s man' s right to father a baby...that is feminist control not pro chouce. The womans exclusive righ was to have consesual sex.
Meg April 21, 2012 at 02:45 pm
I don't think that it is taking away anyone's right to father a child, it is freeing someone who is not prepared to have one. I don't think women get abortions to spite the man they slept with. I'm sorry, but I really don't think any male, whether it is my dad, my boyfriend, a one night stand, or my husband, should have control over how my body works. It is mine. In your logic, if one of your daughters got pregnant would you let her teenage boyfriend or yourself make the decision about what happens to her? If you are going to say something to the effect of "well...it was the woman's choice to have sex.." That's kind of ridiculous. Men don't have such high risks for choosing to have sex. Although I do agree with Paulette in the fact that most of the different procedures/pills associated with female reproduction, I think having this option available gives women more freedom to choose to do what they want.
Paulette Delcourt April 21, 2012 at 03:07 pm
First of all, contraception does fail--then what? I know a few twenty-something girls who are having babies out of wedlock--supposedly the men wanted the kids, but now that it's time to support them they bail. Even worse, one of them was taught by his own father to cheat the system and avoid prosecution by paying a small amount to the mother every month. She can't even afford a lawyer to go after him and the state is so backlogged they can't help her. My point is, having a baby is a good idea until the reality hits and then everything changes, no matter how good the intentions.
Independence666 April 21, 2012 at 03:35 pm
Come on Jim. Obamacare is going to lower the price of healthcare? Do you really believe that? Are you truely that naive? Anytime government gets involved costs go up. Who do you think is going to end up paying for all of the additional regulatory burdens this crazy law is putting on the healthcare providers and insurance companies? That's right it's us, the consumers and tax payers. Hopefully, this horrible monstrosity will be struck down in the supreme court.
Robert Jr. April 21, 2012 at 03:41 pm
Female vanity about their body and concern about convenience don't trump a male's right to keep his son or daughter alive.
Robert Jr. April 21, 2012 at 03:46 pm
Most men I know respect life and would father solo to allow the unborn child an opportunity rather than worry about baby fat and inconvenience of responsibility
Paulette Delcourt April 21, 2012 at 03:47 pm
I don't know a single woman who was concerned about her vanity when she was pregnant--frankly most women seem to enjoy NOT worrying about it--it's a "get out of vanity free" card.
Paulette Delcourt April 21, 2012 at 03:53 pm
You are lucky to have such men in your circle of friends.
Meg April 21, 2012 at 04:23 pm
If you think this is just about "vanity" that is completely wrong. Many times women enrolled in college, grad school, or even high school are forced to put their education aside. You don't really see pregnant girls at prestigious universities. Of course you can argue that women can go to school pregnant, but that can be pretty embarrassing to many women. Medical complications can also inhibit their ability to attend classes. When you are fathering a child, you don't face these problems. As a current student, I know that if I were ever to become pregnant, it would realistically and seriously hinder my personal career aspirations. After saying this, I can't really spend too much more time arguing with you. I guess we can agree to disagree.
Kent Frederick April 21, 2012 at 06:49 pm
Maybe women have enough sense to stay out of politics. It's incredibly partisan. People have a very low opinion of politicians. Politicians are always raising funds for future campaigns.
Whereas men have egos that lead them into politics, women don't have the need for power trips that come from winning elections and getting their names in the media on a regular basis.
Paulette Delcourt April 21, 2012 at 09:19 pm
Kent I just had a similar conversation with my neighbor, not so much gender-based, but psychologically-- maybe narcissism is what draws people to politics.
Paulette Delcourt April 22, 2012 at 01:29 am
Meg I had a sorority sister who "disappeared" her sophomore year--nobody knew what happened to her. Well, I found out recently she had to drop out of college because she got pregnant. I still don't know what became of her, but I sincerely hope her family supported her so she could finish her education--statistically an educated woman earns more, and it's pretty clear we need every advantage.
Robert Jr. April 29, 2012 at 06:35 pm
Life's too short to bicker ... some things we'll agree on, some we won't ...but I do hope we find equality among genders as best as possible so focus can be made for the better good for all.

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