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Wednesday, February 15, 2012

Erin Goes Blagh

Santorum v. Feminists: Mom Talk

Modern day moms have choices, thanks to the radicals.

If Rick Santorum is to be believed, “the radical feminists succeeded in undermining the traditional family and convincing women that professional accomplishments are the key to happiness.” As I sit at my kitchen counter nursing my newborn and attempting to earn a living, I can’t help but think Ricky boy is full of crap. Yep, I’m a stay-at-home mom. I used to rock the suit every day. I worked in the Loop. I owned my own agency. I traveled the world. I climbed the corporate ladder. I hit the glass ceiling. I shattered it by choosing to stay at home with my kids. First of all, I’m not buying the idea that the traditional family is entirely undermined. Nor do I agree with the premise that professional accomplishments can’t make women happy. It…

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Nicole Webb

7:31 pm on Sunday, September 23, 2012

TO EVERYONE WHO REPLIED TO THIS STATEMENT: I am the Real Nicole Webb! I did not write this post! 1st of all, I do not remember even subscribing to this site so when I tried to login to post my correction, I could not! I then pushed "forgot my email address & password" & gave my current email address. I was sent an email that informed that my sign in email address was an emil address that I have …   more ›

Wednesday, July 13, 2011

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Moms Talk: When the Power is Out, How Do You Stay Sane?

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There are two parts to today's discussion on Mom Talk, so that everyone will feel they can get a chance to comment. Part one discusses the children, of course. With our recent string of long power outages in La Grange, La Grange Park and Western Springs, what do you do to keep the kids active? No power means no TV, no video games, no music, no computer—I'm going crazy, so I figure your kids are too. Sounds like a perfect opportunity to kick them out of the house on these beautiful summer days. What has your family done to make the most of half week with no power? Have you gone on any special trips? Eaten at any special restaurants? Gone to the movies? Tell us your tips for how you've used the power outage to get closer. In the second part …

Matthew Hendrickson

8:52 pm on Wednesday, July 13, 2011

One thing I've noticed, is that it really brings out the community service. Neighbors are out talking, sharing generators, etc. It's really nice to see everyone come together, and although it's annoying when it happens, people overall seemed in pretty good spirits!   more ›

Wednesday, June 29, 2011

Moms Talk: How Tech Smart Are You?

The place where moms talk.

So, there you sit, staring at the screen of your desktop/cell phone/tablet computer. You are endlessly pushing buttons, searching for the correct sequence. But down each digital road you're met with the annoying ding or error message that tells you you've got it wrong again. Suddenly, with great frustration you shout, "That's it! I've had enough! I don't care about synching my email or tweeting. I give up!" Just then, your smart, sensible child walks in the room. "It's easy mom," they say. "Here you go." Lo and behold, your magical, tech genius of a child (usually at a tender age) have with a few clicks fixed your problem. Maybe it's not that bad your all of you, but I know it is for some. Kids today have technological skills that could …

Ann Wilson

7:09 am on Thursday, June 30, 2011

Agree, agree! I think it is very important to stay current and use all of the latest technology. Each new thing is just a building-block for the next and it is essential that we stay current. I try to resist the urge to have my kids set up my new laptop, or install the latest software.... it is tempting because they actually LIKE doing that and to me it is just another chore! I find that our …   more ›

Wednesday, June 15, 2011

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Moms Talk: How the World of Parenting Has Changed

The place where Moms talk.

Last night, a group of our Mom Council members got together for some food and drink at a local restaurant. Over the course of the night, we had many interesting discussions, but one that stuck out was the way that things change, and the way they have changed in the world of parenting.   So, today we're focused on change on Mom Talk. How do you think parenting has changed since you were growing up? We've got a wide range of ages, personalities and perspectives on Mom Talk. It should be interesting to see where these experiences differ and where they are the same. How have you parented, as opposed to the ways your parents did? What differences do you remember about growing up, as opposed to how your children have?  Ultimately, how do you …

Sheila Szczytko

11:30 am on Wednesday, June 22, 2011

I grew up in Burr Ridge and can recall at ripe age of 10 or possibly younger riding my bike to La Grange!! My parents owned a business as did my best friends parents. While they worked, we would explore, make up games, spend numerous hours at the pool and not come home until dark. Imagination is lost in today’s teens, they are less likely to do chores and generally need instant gratification. …   more ›

Wednesday, June 1, 2011

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Mom Talk: Keeping Cool

The place where moms talk (and dads too).

I was almost scared to post this column today, because I don't want to jinx anything. It seems like summer has finally arrived after some seriously bizzare cold weather last month. But with the warm and even hot weather on the way, let's talk about keeping cool. Of course, everyone likes to spend the hottest summer days poolside—maybe with an ice cold glass of sun tea—but there are lots of ways to stay cool this summer. Let's explore some ideas off the beaten path. Share your favorite place to get a smoothie, iced tea, or your favorite boutique to buy comfortable summer clothes. Got a favorite ice cream or gelato spot? Where's the best outdoor patio for evening dinners or lunches (and a day beer) in the area. Don't feel shy to share …

Ice Man

5:35 pm on Thursday, June 2, 2011

Back in the day (about 1980) I would go to Prosche Pharmacy to get a "Fudg-i-cal" with other neighborhood kids. At the time would just go by ourselves with out our parents. The only worry was to eat it before it melted all over you hand. Other times we would leave the house to play at Gilbert Park or the little woods behind my house all day. The only rule was to be home when the street lights …   more ›

Wednesday, May 25, 2011

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Mom Talk: What Do You Do For Yourself?

The place where moms (and dads too) talk.

So often on Mom Talk, we end up talking about that kids. It's not that the phenomenon is exculusive to Mom Talk—you put any number of mothers together and they'll usually get around to talking about the kids at some point. While that's great—the kids are amazing, we love them—let's focus on the parents today. For today's discussion we'll be sharing ideas for yourself:  Maybe you have a secret chocolate stash, or a favorite spa—whatever your method—let's share what's good for each of us. After all, you've got to treat yourself right too!

Paulette Delcourt

6:45 pm on Sunday, May 29, 2011

I am a true yoga girl! It really grounds me. I also am addicted to acupuncture. Once I'm over the initial shock of having needles stuck all over me (including my face!) I just fall right to sleep. Since I have been teaching yoga, I meet lots of stressed out people and I can see them decompress before my eyes-I wish I had time to take my own class!   more ›

Wednesday, May 11, 2011

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Mom Talk: How to Keep Kids Active When School is Out

The place where moms (and dads too) talk!

Especially on days like today, it feels like summer is just around the corner. For every kid in town, that means counting down the days until school is out and summer vacation begins. The question for many parents then becomes, what do I do with all these kids in the house all day? Today, we're asking our moms to share some ideas for keeping the kids active in the summer. Are there good sports programs you can recommend? How about camps or park district classes? For parents with older children, what's the right age to start encouraging a summer job? Where have your kids found these jobs and what did they learn from it? Above all, we want to keep kids active—mentally and physically—because sitting inside the house playing video games or …

Linda Grush

12:37 pm on Thursday, May 12, 2011

My kids are on the young end of the spectrum. We've had success with the Western Springs' Safety Village and LT's choir camp. We try to take advantage of our area parks. They're all a little different. One of my favorites is the splash park at Soehrman Park (Willow Springs and Hillsdale in Countryside). As for older kids and work, most of the families I know are always short on babysitters and …   more ›

Wednesday, April 20, 2011

Mom Talk

Did You Do Your Homework?

The place where Mom (and dads too) talk.

Homework: A nightly battle? Today on Mom Talk, we're sharing homework strategies. Do you have scheduled time set aside for homework in your home, or do you play it by ear? With all the extracurricular activities that kids are a part of these days, plus nightly homework, how do your kids (and you) find the time to get it all done? When it comes to the battle of getting it done, do you require homework first, television second, or is there time for kids to unwind after a long, hard day in the halls? How about the types of homework assignments your kids get in school? Too many crossword puzzles? Too many "school projects" that require you to break out the paper mache?  Share it (or vent about it) in comments on today's Mom Talk!

Paulette Delcourt

11:27 pm on Saturday, April 23, 2011

I'm "one of those moms" that only gets involved if I have to. One of my kids begged me to get into power school to check a grade for her. My other child always gets off to a slow start at the beginning of the year, but a bit of nudging (nagging) usually gets him back on track. My son needs time to decompress after school with some basketball or TV. My daughter has evening activities so she always…   more ›

Wednesday, April 13, 2011

Dollars and (Common) Sense: The Allowance

The place where moms talk.

This week on Mom Talk, we're sharing about dollars and cents. The question of an allowance for the kids comes up sooner or later in every household. For some parents, it allows an early introduction to teaching your children about managing their money. On the other hand, it can become just a way for you to bribe the kids into doing their chores. When did you first have the discussion of providing an allowance to your children? How old were they, and how did you know it was an appropriate time to start, and how much to provide?  Do you expect your children to use it to save for purchases they would like to make for themselves? How do you regulate what they end up spending it on? Share your tips, thoughts and stories in comments below and …

Ener S

12:07 pm on Friday, April 15, 2011

In our family, allowance and chores are two separate topics. My daughter (now 10) gets an allowance on the 1st of every month that is equivalent to her age, which has no strings attached. She cannot get an advance on that money, but can spend it or save it as she sees fit. All members of the household are responsible for regular chores, but there is a list of extra things which can be done, which…   more ›

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